The Surrogate and Intended Parent Matching Process
Matching Journey Steps
Profile Completion
Both surrogates and intended parents start by completing detailed profiles. These profiles allow us to understand you on a deeper level - your personal story, preferences, and values - ensuring that the match aligns with your vision of the surrogacy journey.
Personalized Matching
Once profiles are submitted, our expert Matching Specialists carefully review them to handpick potential matches based on compatibility in lifestyle, communication style, and goals for the surrogacy journey. This ensures that both parties feel confident and supported.
30 Minute Match Call
When a potential match is identified, we arrange a 30-minute call between the surrogate and the intended parents. This informal yet important meeting allows both parties to ask questions, share expectations, and explore their compatibility.
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Ask Questions: Discuss perspectives on the surrogacy process and key details like communication preferences and expectations during the pregnancy.
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Explore Compatibility: Openly talk about medical decisions, levels of involvement, and personal preferences that will shape the experience.
Important Matching Considerations
Building The Relationship
If both parties feel a connection after the initial call, they move forward to strengthen their relationship through ongoing communication. This can include deeper discussions about the pregnancy experience, birth plans, and regular check-ins. Surrogates and intended parents often form close, lifelong bonds, with our agency facilitating this process to foster trust and mutual respect.
Important Matching Considerations
To facilitate a strong and meaningful match, we consider several key factors:
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Communication Style: Preferences for communication frequency and style during and after the pregnancy.
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Location Preferences: Surrogates can specify preferred locations for intended parents, whether within the U.S. or internationally.
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Embryo Transfer Preferences: Discuss whether you are open to a single or multiple embryo transfers.
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Medical Preferences: Ensure shared views on important medical decisions, such as selective reduction or termination.
Ongoing Support: You're Never Alone
Surrogacy can be overwhelming, but our agency is committed to supporting you every step of the way. From the beginning, you’ll have access to a dedicated team that assists with everything, including:
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Emotional Support: We offer guidance, encouragement, and a listening ear for the emotional highs and challenges that may arise.
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Medical and Legal Assistance: Our team helps schedule medical appointments and navigates the legal processes involved, ensuring peace of mind.
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Matching Specialist Guidance: Our specialists will address any concerns or questions throughout the matching process and the surrogacy journey.
Through our thoughtful and personalized matching process, you can embark on this extraordinary journey with confidence and mutual understanding.
