Overview of the
Parent Process at
Babymoon Surrogacy
Begin your Journey with Confidence
Starting your surrogacy journey with the right agency is essential. Here’s why choosing wisely matters:
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Quick Matching: By signing on with us, you secure a spot on the surrogate matching list, enabling you to kick off the matching process while simultaneously addressing other important aspects of your journey.
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Comprehensive Support: Our dedicated team will guide you through every step, from selecting a reputable clinic to assisting in finding an egg donor if needed, ensuring you never feel overwhelmed.
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Transparent Pricing: While we are not the highest-priced agency, we believe in providing clarity regarding our fees. Many agencies conceal additional costs in complex contract language, leading to unexpected financial obligations after you've committed. We prioritize transparency, offering you a clear understanding of our pricing structure, although we do not guarantee a fixed price. This way, you can make informed decisions without surprises.
8 step Process: Parent Journey
1. Initial Consultation
Your journey begins with an initial consultation at Babymoon Surrogacy, where we get to know your family’s vision, values, and goals. This meeting helps us align our support to ensure a meaningful and personalized experience.
What to Expect:
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Intake Application: We invite you to fill out our intake form. This essential step helps us understand your unique situation and tailor our services to meet your needs effectively.
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Personalized Discussion: Share your story, aspirations, and any specific preferences regarding your surrogacy experience. We aim to understand your motivations and any important values you want to reflect in the journey ahead.
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Introductory Call: Connect with your dedicated team, who will guide you through the surrogacy process, answer your questions, and provide an overview of what to expect.
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Access to Educational Resources: Gain insights into the surrogacy process, legal considerations, and important milestones, helping you feel informed and empowered as you embark on this journey.
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Outline of Key Considerations: Discuss important factors to consider in the surrogacy process, such as potential timelines, costs, and emotional support options.
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Clarification of Costs: Review a detailed breakdown of all costs involved in the surrogacy journey to avoid surprises.
5. Legal Process
Once your surrogate is medically cleared, both intended parents and surrogates will work closely with their respective attorneys to finalize the Surrogacy Agreement. Additionally, a pre-birth order will be established once the surrogate is pregnant, typically around 16 weeks.
Legal Steps to Follow:
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Each party engages with their own legal counsel.
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Understand your parental rights and responsibilities as intended parents.
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Discuss any specific legal considerations based on your state’s laws.
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Review and negotiate the Surrogacy Agreement.
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Finalize legal documentation before proceeding.
2. Matching with Your Surrogate
This important phase connects you with a thoroughly screened surrogate who shares your values and goals, creating a supportive and successful partnership.
Navigating the Match:
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Review multiple surrogate profiles, including their background, motivations, and experiences.
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Consider any specific preferences regarding the surrogate’s location, lifestyle, and support system.
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Conduct an introductory video call with your surrogate to discuss shared values and expectations to ensure compatibility.
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Engage in the matching process and approval.
6. Medication Calendar and Transfer to Pregnancy
As your surrogate prepares for embryo transfer, she will receive a detailed medication calendar outlining the specific medications and dosages she will need to take. This phase is critical for ensuring the embryo transfer is successful.
What to Expect:​
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Monitoring and Support: Regular check-ins with the medical team to monitor the surrogate’s response to medications.
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Embryo Transfer Day: Be prepared for the embryo transfer procedure and support your surrogate during this important milestone.
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Post-Transfer Care: Discuss what to expect after the transfer, including signs to watch for and follow-up appointments.
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Emotional Support: We offer emotional support to you and your surrogate as she navigates the early stages of pregnancy.
3. Connecting with Escrow, Payment, and Agreement
Once matched with your surrogate, you’ll complete the agency agreement and connect with escrow services for secure, transparent payments throughout the journey.
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Agency Agreement: Finalize the service agreement, which outlines roles, responsibilities, and expectations.
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Payment Schedule Review: Understand the payment schedule and what to expect at each milestone.
Escrow Setup: Work with our team to establish escrow services for secure payment handling throughout the process. -
Communication with Your Surrogate: Discuss financial considerations with your surrogate to ensure transparency and alignment.
7. Delivery – Hospital at Surrogate's Home State
As the due date approaches, preparations for the arrival of your baby will intensify. Typically, delivery occurs at the hospital in your surrogate's home state unless alternative arrangements have been planned.
Essential Preparations:
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Confirm details of your surrogate’s hospital delivery.
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Ensure all necessary documents are prepared and easily accessible.
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Plan for your travel to the hospital and accommodations as needed.
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Discuss any specific preferences for the birth plan with your surrogate and medical team.
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Prepare for any potential contingencies, such as early delivery or unexpected circumstances.
4. Dedicated Case Manager
A dedicated case manager will be assigned to your case, guiding you through the entire surrogacy journey. This includes the seven key steps outlined in our Surrogacy Process.
What to Expect:
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Personalized Guidance: Your case manager will be your main point of contact, available to answer questions and provide support throughout the journey.
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Regular Check-ins: Expect regular updates and check-ins to ensure you are informed and comfortable with the process.
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Coordination of Appointments: Your case manager will help coordinate important appointments and meetings with your surrogate and medical providers.
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Support During Challenges: If any challenges arise, your case manager will assist in finding solutions and provide emotional support.
8. The Joyful Arrival of Your Baby!
Finally, the moment you’ve eagerly anticipated arrives: your baby's birth! Your support team will be there to help you navigate this emotional experience, ensuring you feel ready for the transition into parenthood.
Moments to Cherish:
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Bid farewell to your surrogate and her family, cherishing the bond you’ve formed.
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​Travel home with your newborn, savoring the joy of parenthood!
Your Surrogacy Journey as Intended Parents
Becoming a parent through surrogacy is an extraordinary and life-changing experience. It’s a path that asks for open hearts and clear communication- both with your surrogate and those supporting you along the way. At our agency, we’re dedicated to nurturing a meaningful connection with your gestational surrogate, ensuring you stay involved and informed throughout the pregnancy, all while helping you feel part of the process.
Whether you’re just beginning your journey or have encountered bumps along the way, we’re here to walk beside you, offering guidance, care, and expertise. Together, we’ll work toward the ultimate goal: bringing your baby home.​